Play Therapy for Children (ages 4–10) 🎲
🧸 A child’s language is play, a child’s words are toys
(Ekman)
MY METHODS
In my work with children, I use the Violet Oaklander model of play therapy.
It is one of the most effective approaches in child counseling, because play is the natural language of children. When a child cannot yet put into words what is troubling them – they show it through play.
🎓 I am a certified play therapy practitioner, which means every game becomes an opportunity for the child to express themselves and to learn how to manage their inner world.
🧠 How does it work?
🧩 Therapeutic play looks no different from ordinary play – we play familiar games, draw, build, and create. Sometimes I simply follow the child in their play.
🪄 But these simple activities, if we know how to look at them, can reveal so much.
🎨 I use playful and projective tools:
– drawing
– unfinished sentences
– sand tray
– dolls
– thematic toys
👨👩👧 The role of parents – essential
🤝 Consultations usually take place together with parents or partially.
🎯 In my work, I show parents how to play with their child in a therapeutic way, so that this continues at home as well, helping the child feel safe everywhere, not only in the therapy room.
📆 One session per week is not enough – it is important that similar approaches and behavior models are applied at home too, so the child can grow in a consistent, supportive environment.
❓ When can play therapy help?
🌀 When a child is experiencing strong emotions:
– anxiety, anger, sadness, fears
📦 When there are behavioral difficulties:
– impulsivity, withdrawal, aggression
🌍 After major life changes:
– moving, divorce, changing schools
🧑🤝🧑 When facing social difficulties:
– struggling to make friends, to communicate with others
💔 After traumatic experiences:
– loss, accidents, violence
🧩 In the presence of developmental disorders
🌱 And even when there is no clear reason, but you feel that your child simply doesn’t feel at ease.
✉️ I invite you to get in touch
If you are reading this text, you probably feel that it’s worth having a conversation.
Write to me. We will meet, talk it over, and decide together what is best for your child.